Saturday, August 11, 2012

A heart to heart QUOTES on trust and forgiveness

When I love, I love and when I said I miss you,  I meant it.

Heart to heart,   MGV

I told you I love you.   It was for real and not for fun.   I’ve never felt this way before and just hoping against hope that you will take care of it.   I love you and always will.

Heart to heart,  MGV

“You can never fail at being you.”

“Your inner beauty never needs make – up.”

“Love endures all things.”

“Every time you speak your mind is on parade.”

“I am not  a perfect person,  I make a lot of mistakes but still I love those people who stay with me after knowing how I really am.”

“Don ‘t be concerned about what you can get from a relationship.   Instead,  concern yourself with what you can bring to it.”

“Stop playing games.   A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness.”

“Even though you are only half of a relationship,  you must  remain a whole person,  apart from the relationship.”
“The creating of anything worthwhile takes patience and energy.”

“Forming good relationships takes a lot of looking.   But looking can be fun.”

“Remember that moral and spiritual values don’t restrict,  they protect.”

“Keep laughing.   It exercises your heart and protects you from cardiac problems.”

“Perhaps it’s not too bad to do some things you’d rather not if it makes another happy.”

“What you learn about yourself will  infinitely help in trying to understand others.”

“See problems as small miracles which can bring about knowledge and change.”

“Even though maintaining your integrity as a person,  strive to make yourself one with another.   You can do this best if you make each one THE ONE.”

“Don’t fall in love with love,  you’ll drown in its complexities.”

“Be polite.   Love does not give license for rudeness.”

“Don’t allow your relationships to die of neglect.”

“When you get angry with someone it might be well to stop and consider all the things you like about them before you respond.”

“You are at the center of all your relationships,  therefore you are responsible for your self-esteem,  growth,  happiness and fulfilment.   Don’t expect the other person to bring you these things.  You must live as if you are alone and others are gift offered to help you to enrich your life.”

“If I were living with me,  would I want to stay around?”

Know yourself.  Be in touch with the secret of yourself.

Stop doing things you don’t want to do or being uncomfortable with.   Trust your instincts and just be YOU.

Say what your mean and don’t be afraid to say YES or NO.

Stop people pleasing because you can’t please everybody.  Follow your inspirations and be kind to yourself.

CHANGE yourself instead of your world.

I love you.   I feel like a princess and you are my prince charming when I am with you.

Words are powerful.  Words have energy.   I love to play with words  but PLEASE be gentle with your tongue lest it hurts.

If you love and get hurt, love more.
If you love more and hurt more, love even more.
If you love even more and get hurt even more, love some more until it hurts no more...

~ William Shakespeare
From special someone
I need to know more about me,  about myself.   I belong to myself and I am complete without you.

" What you pay attention to makes the energy go there and increases as long you are there in your mind and thought.   Be aware of what choice you do."

“Turn your face to the sun and the shadows fall behind you.”

Love is all you need to carry on.   Never let go if your heart says NO.

I long to say “I love you”.  But you love me no more so I have to hold my words otherwise I will  be hurt.  You never reciprocate  those words  but  someday  you will realize,  my love will see you through.

“When someone leaves, it's because someone else is about to arrive.”  

― Paulo Coelho, The Zahir

“Sometimes your nearness takes my breath away;  and all the things I want to say can find no voice. Then, in silence, I can only hope my eyes will speak my heart.”
From  someone special ...

“Sharing is so important to loving communication.  Sharing stops when you realize that someone is not listening or caring,  and the sad part is that we are not given a second chance.”

Sometimes we communicate through action.  Action speaks louder than words.

If you love me then show me.  Just don’t talk about it but show it in action.

Do loving things for each other.  Be considerate.
Put your feelings into action   Love is an action word.

Create your own love holidays to celebrate and don’t just wait for Valentine’s day.   Let everyday be a Valentine’s Day with your special someone.

A  new language of love can shift our paradigm.  Show me that you love me,  show me that you care.

Tell your special someone often that you really love and care through your words,  your actions and your gestures.

Don’t assume that I know you love me.  Show me and tell me more often.  I need to know more than anyone else.

Don’t take the simple things your special someone is doing for granted.  Positive reinforcement and appreciation  makes a relationship even stronger.

Let me know when you feel low or lonely or misunderstood.  It will make me stronger to know I have the power to comfort you.  Feelings, unverbalized,  can be destructive.

Remember,  though I love you,  I still can’t always read your mind.   Can you read my mind??

Express joyous thoughts and feelings.   They bring vitality to a relationship.

Give gifts of love without reason and  verbalize your happiness.

“When you respond to me so I feel special,  it will make up for all those who,  during the day,  have passed me up without seeing me.”

“Don’t invalidate my being by telling me that what I see or feel is insignificant or not real.   If I see and feel it  - for me – it’s my experience and therefore important and real!”

“Listen to me without judgment or preconception.  Being heard,  like being seen,  is vital.   If you truly see me and hear me as I am at the moment it is a continued affirmation of my being as we help each other to change.”

Touch me.   Hold me.  Hug me.  My physical self is revitalized by loving nonverbal communication.

“Respect my silences.  Alternatives for my problems,  creativity,  and my spiritual needs are most often realized in moments of quiet.”

“Let others know you value me.  Public affirmation of our love makes me feel special and proud.  It is good to share the joy of our relationship with others.”

Saying “I LOVE YOU” to your special someone,   is a cornerstone of a healthy loving relationship.

Whenever I express my innermost feelings and say “ I LOVE YOU” ,  it makes up the most beautiful sounds in the world!!   I love you with passion,  my only love,  now and forever.

Never manipulate or prevent your special someone from discovering “real thoughts and real feelings.”

Only the truth can help us feel secure.

Only the truth can bring us the necessary trust needed for long – lasting relationships.

Only truth,  painful though it may sometimes be,  can create a safe environment of unity and growth.

Truth with a capital “T”  is difficult.   Still it is at the core of a loving relationship.

Where  there is no trust there can be no love.

Lie or not to lie?

The truth must be our goal,  no matter where it leads us.

Truth in a relationship should begin at the start.

Sometimes I keep my distance – an aggressive act to avoid an invasion of privacy,  a trespass into someone else’s space.

Some people may feel it is better not to know than to have to face the anxiety and pain that truth might bring.

Others will want nothing but the truth,  but still hope the truth to be offered lovingly.

Truth can be communicated gently.

We must be willing to accept the fact that we may fall from truth from time to time.

If we want our relationship to last and to grow,  honesty and truth must be our inevitable goal.

"I see forever when I look in your eyes
 You're all I ever wanted I always want you to be mine
Let's make a promise 'till the end of time
 We'll always be together.”

From special someone ...

“You are the only one person I want to be with for the rest of my life and grow old with. I love you my sweet heart i love you more and more “ ♥

From special someone

I love you so much.  You know that because I have been telling you almost everyday.    Sometimes you said you love me or you miss me  but it is not enough.   Now you take me for granted,  you set  me aside,  you push me to the bench.    I do believe in unconditional love,  but my heart has limits.  If loving you only means pain, hurt, despair or missing you to the highest level, for wanting to see or feel your presence,  then I have to follow my ultimate instinct.   To set you free,  to let go of you and  wish you all the best,  even if my heart say NO NO NO NO please.

In every tear is a smile.  Someone might made you cry in the past,  but someone will make you smile in the present moment.

So many choices at hand.  Choose the best among the best that leads to love , peace and harmony.

Create your present moment different from yesterday.   If you cried last night,  start your day with sunshine in your heart and mind.   Face the world with rainbow colors and parade the fresh garden in YOU.

Don't let your past write the story of your future.  Start writing it now with your own free – will and never be influenced by others to edit the manuscript.   Read it,  rewrite and face your new chapter heads up!


“Tomorrow is a blank page that we can author today, for our thoughts
and actions are the script writers, casting department and the director
of the story we write daily on the pages of our perception.”

If you can’t love me the way I love you,  if you are not capable of loving, I might as well let you go.  There is no point of holding on to someone who does not even care to say hi or hello.  Just let me be and never disturb me with your abusive words.    All the best for you and now I will take care of myself – only me.  It is now between me and myself to face the future eyeball to eyeball.

Our experiences are the lens through which we view life.

Own your problems and feelings.  It would be the best year of your life.  Be yourself.

“Forgiveness is letting what was,  be gone;  What will be,  come;  What is now, be.”

“Unless we are able to forget the past,  we’ll never be free of its power to reawaken hate and pain.”

“Our need is to learn from wrongs,  then, having become wiser,  let them go and move forward into tomorrow.”

“Let go.  Why do you cling to the pain?”

“There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday.  It is not yours to judge.”

“Why hold on to the very things which  keeps you from hope and love?”

“Judge not.  Try to understand and have empathy strengthened with compassion;  then forgiving is easy.”

“It is the forgiver who is freed in forgiving.”

“Leave judgment and revenge to heaven.”

When you feel love there is only love  - You.



Thanks for reading


Heart to heart,


MHARGZ

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