A MESSAGE FOR A NEWLYWEDS
“We are born to love, it is the principle of existence and its only end.” “When two people love each other, they don’t look at each other; they look in the same direction.”
Allow me to congratulate you ___________________ and _______________________ , for having decided to be solemnized in the holy sacrament of matrimony. You made a decision for a lifetime and we are happy to be part of this special moment of your ceremony. The most challenging and exciting moments of your married life starts now. Enjoy it, every single moment and cherish it together in your hearts.
Now that you are one, it is necessary to be aware of your individuality and respect for each other. Acknowledge the humanness of each other. Trust, respect and communication are vital ingredients for a happy marriage. Never ever attempt to change one another just to please each other. Just be yourself loving and respecting each other. If you take time to talk together each day you’ll never become strangers.
For the first few years of your marriage you will encounter obstacles and trials as you face your daily routines and endeavors together. You will discover some traits and behaviors that you might dislike or might see the true color of a person in times of crisis. Remember that when you love someone you have to look beyond your differences, beyond your imperfections , beyond your weaknesses. Instead you have to support and bring out the best in each other. When you relate with each other, sometimes arguments or misunderstanding will come into the picture but just be ready to forgive and forget because it is really unavoidable
Remember that a relationship is a pooling of resources. That means that with each relationship you are not only giving, you are becoming more. Living happily ever after depends in part on what you’re after. Whenever there are misunderstandings, never sleep with it and fix it the soonest. Make certain they are thoroughly over and done. Both of you have to settle differences soonest. “Don’t hold on to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.”
Congratulations!! Increase tenderness and intimacy. They are powerful source of nourishment to relationships. May God bless you and you are now each for the other and both for the Lord.
Thank you for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
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