Love is not just being nice and
pleasant, remembering birthdays, sending greetings on Valentine’s day,
Christmas or New year Season, anniversaries and getting on with life. It has to
run deeper or stronger and see each other beyond imperfections.
Love may seem very simple by
just to seek someone out and start talking, but it is really very complex. Each
have different expectations, emotions and reactions. It needs a solid foundation of unconditional love and see each other beyond
themselves. Express and show your
feelings of love everyday to stand the test of time and survive longer, if not
forever.
Loving someone evolves around
sharing our life purpose. Embracing each others' purpose and meaning as we kiss
towards common goals and interests.
Clinging towards each other closer and the wondrous feeling adds a great
deal of colors and joy. We become one
love and one heart under the umbrella of love.
We travel through life on
automatic pilot and forget to troubleshoot what we are doing as we go. NEVER take for granted your beloved
someone as you journey in life. Keep an
eye on them and look after them before it is too late. Grow through life with someone you love
instead of go through life.
We often quest for the magic
formula of happiness. We search for love
with bliss of it all instead of
hassles. But it is not that easy
because it involves two people with different life experiences, personalities,
interpersonal skills, needs and desires.
Acceptance is the magic formula, no IFs
and BUTs, only one true and real love counts. Create happiness.
Take the ownership for the way
you feel and what you want done about it and keep it realistic. Be true to yourself and to others. Be yourself.
Express yourself more often to
your friends and never stifle whatever
ill feelings that bothers you. Let it go
and see it as an opportunity to clear up a “sore point”. Whatever issue at hand, open up through listening. Cherish and
treasure friendship.
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