When I love, I love and when I said I miss you, I meant it.
Heart to heart, MGV
I told you I love you. It was for real and not for fun. I’ve never felt this way before and just hoping against hope that you will take care of it. I love you and always will.
Heart to heart, MGV
“You can never fail at being you.”
“Your inner beauty never needs make – up.”
“Love endures all things.”
“Every time you speak your mind is on parade.”
“I am not a perfect person, I make a lot of mistakes but still I love those people who stay with me after knowing how I really am.”
“Don ‘t be concerned about what you can get from a relationship. Instead, concern yourself with what you can bring to it.”
“Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness.”
“Even though you are only half of a relationship, you must remain a whole person, apart from the relationship.”
“The creating of anything worthwhile takes patience and energy.”
“Forming good relationships takes a lot of looking. But looking can be fun.”
“Remember that moral and spiritual values don’t restrict, they protect.”
“Keep laughing. It exercises your heart and protects you from cardiac problems.”
“Perhaps it’s not too bad to do some things you’d rather not if it makes another happy.”
“What you learn about yourself will infinitely help in trying to understand others.”
“See problems as small miracles which can bring about knowledge and change.”
“Even though maintaining your integrity as a person, strive to make yourself one with another. You can do this best if you make each one THE ONE.”
“Don’t fall in love with love, you’ll drown in its complexities.”
“Be polite. Love does not give license for rudeness.”
“Don’t allow your relationships to die of neglect.”
“When you get angry with someone it might be well to stop and consider all the things you like about them before you respond.”
“You are at the center of all your relationships, therefore you are responsible for your self-esteem, growth, happiness and fulfilment. Don’t expect the other person to bring you these things. You must live as if you are alone and others are gift offered to help you to enrich your life.”
“If I were living with me, would I want to stay around?”
Know yourself. Be in touch with the secret of yourself.
Stop doing things you don’t want to do or being uncomfortable with. Trust your instincts and just be YOU.
Say what your mean and don’t be afraid to say YES or NO.
Stop people pleasing because you can’t please everybody. Follow your inspirations and be kind to yourself.
CHANGE yourself instead of your world.
I love you. I feel like a princess and you are my prince charming when I am with you.
Words are powerful. Words have energy. I love to play with words but PLEASE be gentle with your tongue lest it hurts.
If you love and get hurt, love more.
If you love more and hurt more, love even more.
If you love even more and get hurt even more, love some more until it hurts no more...
~ William Shakespeare
From special someone
I need to know more about me, about myself. I belong to myself and I am complete without you.
" What you pay attention to makes the energy go there and increases as long you are there in your mind and thought. Be aware of what choice you do."
“Turn your face to the sun and the shadows fall behind you.”
Love is all you need to carry on. Never let go if your heart says NO.
I long to say “I love you”. But you love me no more so I have to hold my words otherwise I will be hurt. You never reciprocate those words but someday you will realize, my love will see you through.
“When someone leaves, it's because someone else is about to arrive.”
― Paulo Coelho, The Zahir
“Sometimes your nearness takes my breath away; and all the things I want to say can find no voice. Then, in silence, I can only hope my eyes will speak my heart.”
From someone special ...
“Sharing is so important to loving communication. Sharing stops when you realize that someone is not listening or caring, and the sad part is that we are not given a second chance.”
Sometimes we communicate through action. Action speaks louder than words.
If you love me then show me. Just don’t talk about it but show it in action.
Do loving things for each other. Be considerate.
Put your feelings into action Love is an action word.
Create your own love holidays to celebrate and don’t just wait for Valentine’s day. Let everyday be a Valentine’s Day with your special someone.
A new language of love can shift our paradigm. Show me that you love me, show me that you care.
Tell your special someone often that you really love and care through your words, your actions and your gestures.
Don’t assume that I know you love me. Show me and tell me more often. I need to know more than anyone else.
Don’t take the simple things your special someone is doing for granted. Positive reinforcement and appreciation makes a relationship even stronger.
Let me know when you feel low or lonely or misunderstood. It will make me stronger to know I have the power to comfort you. Feelings, unverbalized, can be destructive.
Remember, though I love you, I still can’t always read your mind. Can you read my mind??
Express joyous thoughts and feelings. They bring vitality to a relationship.
Give gifts of love without reason and verbalize your happiness.
“When you respond to me so I feel special, it will make up for all those who, during the day, have passed me up without seeing me.”
“Don’t invalidate my being by telling me that what I see or feel is insignificant or not real. If I see and feel it - for me – it’s my experience and therefore important and real!”
“Listen to me without judgment or preconception. Being heard, like being seen, is vital. If you truly see me and hear me as I am at the moment it is a continued affirmation of my being as we help each other to change.”
Touch me. Hold me. Hug me. My physical self is revitalized by loving nonverbal communication.
“Respect my silences. Alternatives for my problems, creativity, and my spiritual needs are most often realized in moments of quiet.”
“Let others know you value me. Public affirmation of our love makes me feel special and proud. It is good to share the joy of our relationship with others.”
Saying “I LOVE YOU” to your special someone, is a cornerstone of a healthy loving relationship.
Whenever I express my innermost feelings and say “ I LOVE YOU” , it makes up the most beautiful sounds in the world!! I love you with passion, my only love, now and forever.
Never manipulate or prevent your special someone from discovering “real thoughts and real feelings.”
Only the truth can help us feel secure.
Only the truth can bring us the necessary trust needed for long – lasting relationships.
Only truth, painful though it may sometimes be, can create a safe environment of unity and growth.
Truth with a capital “T” is difficult. Still it is at the core of a loving relationship.
Where there is no trust there can be no love.
Lie or not to lie?
The truth must be our goal, no matter where it leads us.
Truth in a relationship should begin at the start.
Sometimes I keep my distance – an aggressive act to avoid an invasion of privacy, a trespass into someone else’s space.
Some people may feel it is better not to know than to have to face the anxiety and pain that truth might bring.
Others will want nothing but the truth, but still hope the truth to be offered lovingly.
Truth can be communicated gently.
We must be willing to accept the fact that we may fall from truth from time to time.
If we want our relationship to last and to grow, honesty and truth must be our inevitable goal.
"I see forever when I look in your eyes
You're all I ever wanted I always want you to be mine
Let's make a promise 'till the end of time
We'll always be together.”
From special someone ...
“You are the only one person I want to be with for the rest of my life and grow old with. I love you my sweet heart i love you more and more “ ♥
From special someone
I love you so much. You know that because I have been telling you almost everyday. Sometimes you said you love me or you miss me but it is not enough. Now you take me for granted, you set me aside, you push me to the bench. I do believe in unconditional love, but my heart has limits. If loving you only means pain, hurt, despair or missing you to the highest level, for wanting to see or feel your presence, then I have to follow my ultimate instinct. To set you free, to let go of you and wish you all the best, even if my heart say NO NO NO NO please.
In every tear is a smile. Someone might made you cry in the past, but someone will make you smile in the present moment.
So many choices at hand. Choose the best among the best that leads to love , peace and harmony.
Create your present moment different from yesterday. If you cried last night, start your day with sunshine in your heart and mind. Face the world with rainbow colors and parade the fresh garden in YOU.
Don't let your past write the story of your future. Start writing it now with your own free – will and never be influenced by others to edit the manuscript. Read it, rewrite and face your new chapter heads up!
“Tomorrow is a blank page that we can author today, for our thoughts
and actions are the script writers, casting department and the director
of the story we write daily on the pages of our perception.”
If you can’t love me the way I love you, if you are not capable of loving, I might as well let you go. There is no point of holding on to someone who does not even care to say hi or hello. Just let me be and never disturb me with your abusive words. All the best for you and now I will take care of myself – only me. It is now between me and myself to face the future eyeball to eyeball.
Our experiences are the lens through which we view life.
Own your problems and feelings. It would be the best year of your life. Be yourself.
“Forgiveness is letting what was, be gone; What will be, come; What is now, be.”
“Unless we are able to forget the past, we’ll never be free of its power to reawaken hate and pain.”
“Our need is to learn from wrongs, then, having become wiser, let them go and move forward into tomorrow.”
“Let go. Why do you cling to the pain?”
“There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday. It is not yours to judge.”
“Why hold on to the very things which keeps you from hope and love?”
“Judge not. Try to understand and have empathy strengthened with compassion; then forgiving is easy.”
“It is the forgiver who is freed in forgiving.”
“Leave judgment and revenge to heaven.”
When you feel love there is only love - You.
Thanks for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
Saturday, August 11, 2012
Friday, August 10, 2012
A heart to heart QUOTE - a let go message.
Dear special someone,
If you can’t love me the way I love you, if you are not capable of loving me anymore, I might as well let you go. There is no point of holding on to someone who does not even care to say hi or hello. Just let me be and never disturb me with your abusive words. All the best for you and now I will take care of myself – only me. It is now between me and myself to face the future eyeball to eyeball.
Our experiences are the lens through which we view life.
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
If you can’t love me the way I love you, if you are not capable of loving me anymore, I might as well let you go. There is no point of holding on to someone who does not even care to say hi or hello. Just let me be and never disturb me with your abusive words. All the best for you and now I will take care of myself – only me. It is now between me and myself to face the future eyeball to eyeball.
Our experiences are the lens through which we view life.
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
A heart to heart QUOTE - message for someone special.
My dear special someone,
I love you so much. You know that because I have been telling you almost everyday. Sometimes you said you love me or you miss me but it is not enough. Now you take me for granted, you set me aside, you push me to the bench. I do believe in unconditional love, but my heart has limits. If loving you only means pain, hurt, despair or missing you to the highest level, for wanting to see or feel your presence, then I have to follow my ultimate instinct. To set you free, to let go of you and wish you all the best, even if my heart say NO NO NO NO please.
I love you and always will.
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
I love you so much. You know that because I have been telling you almost everyday. Sometimes you said you love me or you miss me but it is not enough. Now you take me for granted, you set me aside, you push me to the bench. I do believe in unconditional love, but my heart has limits. If loving you only means pain, hurt, despair or missing you to the highest level, for wanting to see or feel your presence, then I have to follow my ultimate instinct. To set you free, to let go of you and wish you all the best, even if my heart say NO NO NO NO please.
I love you and always will.
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
Wednesday, August 8, 2012
A heart to heart QUOTES - never allow others to make you an OPTION
"Never let someone be your priority, while you remain their option.”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
“When I shut my mouth and turn and walk away, it does not mean you have won. It means you are not worthy of my time anymore.”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
How you speak to yourself changes everything.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Be non-judgemental. Listen with an open mind. When listening, put yourself in that person’s shoes.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Practice silence/solitude to enable you to listen not only to the voices but also to the feelings of others.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Listen with patience and love and a positive mind.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Speak softly; speak sweetly, speak less. Listen more, so as not to impose your authority over others.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Amidst the chaos of negativity, listen to the cry of attention and understanding.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Some people find it difficult to express their feelings. We have to respect their rights to privacy.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Accept the fact that everyone is entitled to his/her opinion, which can also be valid.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
When someone starts doing things differently, he/she is trying to communicate something. Listen with attention.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Be sensitive to vibrations/feelings, which sometimes can convey a message louder than words.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Listen with your ears and understand with your heart.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Share your time and material resources with others.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Share your virtues, patience, love, mercy, happiness.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Share your inspiration with others so that they are inspired.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Share your enthusiasm and knowledge with others.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Give you support to others in times of need by being sincere and honest.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Share good news to generate positive energy.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Share to ease burden of others.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Help others overcome their limitations or handicaps.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Share a joke to create lightness and easiness.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Culture is about how we live our lives; how we think, speak and behave. When we do all these with positive values, then we live a culture of peace. It brings benefit to the self and others.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Peace means much more that the absence of war. Peace is considered as a set of values, attitudes and modes of behavior promoting the peaceful settlement of conflict and the quest for mutual understanding.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Peace is a way of being, doing and living in society that can be taught, developed, and best of all, improved upon.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Peace is living in harmony amidst diversity where and when we adopt a common platform of positive values.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Peace is not the absence of conflict, but requires a positive, dynamic, participatory process where dialogue is encouraged and conflicts are solved in a spirit of mutual understanding and cooperation. The power of PEACE is to change future headlines from “Violence Increases, Again” to “Violence Diminishes.”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Love never dies. “And if it all falls apart, I will know deep in my heart, the only dream that mattered had come true. In this life, I was loved by you. “ -Colin Raye
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
"You can never realize the importance of something until it is gone"... but others say "It will never be gone unless you give importance to it."
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
My heart belong to you, only YOU. Please handle it with care because I love you.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
If you go away it would be ok. You lost someone who loves you and I lost someone who does not love me. Better to know earlier than to live with regrets.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
I love you and I wish you joy and happiness even if it is not with me.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Have mercy for yourself. Realize that we all make mistakes so learn to forgive yourself as you forgive others.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Promise not to get irritated for at least once a week and don’t be angry at least during the morning. It is alright to be angry but in proper place and time.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Speak sweetly/softly/politely to reduce the force of words. Words have energy and it can break or make a person’s future.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Declare truce with your enemies and try to make them your friends again. Yes this is difficult but it is worth a try. Or at least be civil with each other.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Try to remove all words of violence from your vocabulary and enable others to share their thoughts and ideas without fear of discrimination or reprisal. Share your thoughts and ideas.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Practice active non-violence, rejecting in all its forms: physical, sexual, phychological, economical and social, in particular towards the most deprived and vulnerable such as children and adolescent.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
“When you truly love someone, you don’t look for faults. You don’t look for answers. You don’t look for mistakes. Instead you fight for the mistakes. You accept the faults. And you overlook excuses.”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Loving you was a dream come true, In my life, I could say those moments you shared with me was my heaven on earth. Now you left me for a petty cause and I am in my worst nightmare once again. But I still love you and always will.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Happiness as light as air.
LOVE as DEEP as OCEAN.
Friends as solid as diamonds
And success as bright as gold.
These are my wishes for you today and everyday!!!
(from someone)
Make new friends but keep the old. One is silver and the other is gold.
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, impossible to forget.
G. Randolf
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
It takes a year to make a friend, but you can lose one in an hour.
Chinese Proverb
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!
“STAY” is a charming word in a friend’s vocabulary.
Amos Bronson Alcott
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Two persons cannot long be friends if they cannot forgive each other’s failings.
Jeande la Bruyere
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!!!
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
A friend is a gift you give yourself.
Robert Louis Stevenson
The most difficult thing to explain in life is the simplest truth called love.
Ramanathan Srinivasan
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
As we have explained, in first love the soul is taken long before the body; later the body is taken long before the soul; sometimes the soul is not taken at all.
Victor Hugo
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low.
Henry Ward Beecher
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Love is when you look into someone's eyes and go all the way inside; to their soul and you both know... instantly!
Angela Chase
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Find the person who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life.
Leo Buscaglia
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
“A friend is a gift you give yourself.”
Robert Louis Stevenson
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
I have one best friend in this world. She never left me nor forsake me. She loves me despite our petty misunderstandings and quarrels in the past. She has forgiven me of all my temperaments and moods in the past. She is so generous and thoughtful. She never ever forgets my birthdays. What a friend, a best friend and I am so blessed to have her in my life. You ask me who? Of course my one and only sister “LOVE JOY.”
HAPPY SISTER’S DAY!!!
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
“Someday we will forget the hurt, the reason we cried and who caused us pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge. But letting things unfold in their own way and own time.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
After all what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of our life which shows how well we ran the race.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
So smile, laugh and forgive. Believe and love all over again.”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Respect is earned not given. Take good care of it.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Living within your means is a major key to enjoying your wealth without becoming materialistic and bound by debt and the need for more.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
NEVER blame failures, decisions, and your emotional responses on other people.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Never resent being manipulated by people who try to influence you. Just do what makes you happy and be able to discern right from wrong.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Never procrastinate and then make decisions even without input from others. When you decide, never worry about how the others will respond. Own you decision.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
When we ignore our free will, we sacrifice numerous opportunities to step out on faith, stand up for what is right, and take life by the horns.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
The person who has relinquished the power to choose just either be satisfied with the leftovers or find someone on whose coat tails he or she can ride into glory.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Realize that we have within reach the solution to make of our self-induced problems.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Bowing to peer pressure is little more that giving up our will power and following the will of others. Never ever blend in.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Throughout life, we are put to the test in terms of values, character, and priorities.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
The guilt, humiliation, and inner anger that follow value compromise can be unbearable. As a result of string-pulling, we either lower our standards or run away from them the rest of our lives.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
The problem with the blame game is that we eventually mar our self-esteem in the process, pretending to be helpless victims as opposed to willing conspirators.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Some major regrets in life, often traceable to the ill-effects of letting someone pull their strings.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Why do we let people pull our strings when it is self-defeating?
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Take full responsibility for your own actions.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Own your core values instead of renting it.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Too much of our identity is based on social relationship, Be your own identity.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
When we base our sense of value on how others respond to us, we become vulnerable to people tides. Like a boat without a mooring, we go back and forth, up and down, depending on the nearest and strongest current of the moment.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Chameleons take on the color of their surroundings. Low-self-esteem people meld with the present environment. To fit in, they compromise their values so as to win acceptance from others.
Be your own best ally and transform your mind.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Only you can live your life. Other people may want you to live according to their wishes.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
True friends, people who love you, will not try to pull your strings.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Most people tend to confuse chronological age with maturity, There is no direct correlation between time and maturation, only the potential for it. GROW UP.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Recognize weak moments.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
The common string-pulling conditions is when we choose to respond with anger instead of healthy, loving communication.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Letting people pull our chains and push our buttons is most common when we are emotionally vulnerable. Stand up and be strong in every situation/circumstance.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Over reacting often results in doing or saying things we regret later.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Take full responsibility of your attitudes and actions.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
In every situation we can choose to react or respond. Reacting denotes string-pulling. Responding indicates that we accept responsibility for our behaviour.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Whenever we come to a narrow or rutty area, stir the wheels by yourself, taking the hands of others off the wheel.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
When we let other people get their hands on our steering wheel, we relinquish our God – given ability to exercise free will. This often results in self – defeat.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Keep your hands on the wheel. Seek God and others for help, but know that the power to choose is always in you.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
"One's philosophy is not the best expressed in words; it is expressed in the choices one makes. In the long run, we shape our lives and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And, the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility."
Eleanor Roosevelt
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
When the chips are down, you know who your friends are.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
I asked someone, how can I love with passion? The special someone said “Love and love just with love then everything with love.” Oh how sweet!
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
“When I was young I ran out into the fields and sprawled out onto the grass . I looked at the stars above and asked for the crescent moon to one day find my one true love. Little did I know back then that request would be you!”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
"PROMISE yourself….
To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel that there is something special in them
To look at the sunny side of everything, and make your optimism come true.
To think only the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.
To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.
To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words, but great deeds.
To live in faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are true to the best that is in you."
I need not explain myself to you and you and you. The first step towards failure is pleasing everybody. Truth is never straight once it goes from mouth to mouth.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Be alone but don’t feel lonely.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
When everything is wrong, find simple reasons to smile.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Wake up every morning without any regret from yesterday.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Life is a beautiful gift from God so enjoy it.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
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Love but don’t allow your heart to be abused.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Trust but don’t be naive.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Listen to others but don’t lose your own voice.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Give but don’t allow yourself to be used.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Happiness is a choice. Life is not about pleasing everybody.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
“Every time you mistreat a woman, you give up the right to be treated like a man.”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
What you can’t change you should bear with patiently.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Thanks for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
“When I shut my mouth and turn and walk away, it does not mean you have won. It means you are not worthy of my time anymore.”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
How you speak to yourself changes everything.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Be non-judgemental. Listen with an open mind. When listening, put yourself in that person’s shoes.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Practice silence/solitude to enable you to listen not only to the voices but also to the feelings of others.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Listen with patience and love and a positive mind.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Speak softly; speak sweetly, speak less. Listen more, so as not to impose your authority over others.
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Amidst the chaos of negativity, listen to the cry of attention and understanding.
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Some people find it difficult to express their feelings. We have to respect their rights to privacy.
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Accept the fact that everyone is entitled to his/her opinion, which can also be valid.
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When someone starts doing things differently, he/she is trying to communicate something. Listen with attention.
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Be sensitive to vibrations/feelings, which sometimes can convey a message louder than words.
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Listen with your ears and understand with your heart.
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Share your time and material resources with others.
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Share your virtues, patience, love, mercy, happiness.
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Share your inspiration with others so that they are inspired.
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Share your enthusiasm and knowledge with others.
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Give you support to others in times of need by being sincere and honest.
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Share good news to generate positive energy.
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Share to ease burden of others.
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Help others overcome their limitations or handicaps.
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Share a joke to create lightness and easiness.
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Culture is about how we live our lives; how we think, speak and behave. When we do all these with positive values, then we live a culture of peace. It brings benefit to the self and others.
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Peace means much more that the absence of war. Peace is considered as a set of values, attitudes and modes of behavior promoting the peaceful settlement of conflict and the quest for mutual understanding.
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Peace is a way of being, doing and living in society that can be taught, developed, and best of all, improved upon.
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Peace is living in harmony amidst diversity where and when we adopt a common platform of positive values.
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Peace is not the absence of conflict, but requires a positive, dynamic, participatory process where dialogue is encouraged and conflicts are solved in a spirit of mutual understanding and cooperation. The power of PEACE is to change future headlines from “Violence Increases, Again” to “Violence Diminishes.”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Love never dies. “And if it all falls apart, I will know deep in my heart, the only dream that mattered had come true. In this life, I was loved by you. “ -Colin Raye
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"You can never realize the importance of something until it is gone"... but others say "It will never be gone unless you give importance to it."
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My heart belong to you, only YOU. Please handle it with care because I love you.
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If you go away it would be ok. You lost someone who loves you and I lost someone who does not love me. Better to know earlier than to live with regrets.
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I love you and I wish you joy and happiness even if it is not with me.
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Have mercy for yourself. Realize that we all make mistakes so learn to forgive yourself as you forgive others.
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Promise not to get irritated for at least once a week and don’t be angry at least during the morning. It is alright to be angry but in proper place and time.
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Speak sweetly/softly/politely to reduce the force of words. Words have energy and it can break or make a person’s future.
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Declare truce with your enemies and try to make them your friends again. Yes this is difficult but it is worth a try. Or at least be civil with each other.
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Try to remove all words of violence from your vocabulary and enable others to share their thoughts and ideas without fear of discrimination or reprisal. Share your thoughts and ideas.
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Practice active non-violence, rejecting in all its forms: physical, sexual, phychological, economical and social, in particular towards the most deprived and vulnerable such as children and adolescent.
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“When you truly love someone, you don’t look for faults. You don’t look for answers. You don’t look for mistakes. Instead you fight for the mistakes. You accept the faults. And you overlook excuses.”
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Loving you was a dream come true, In my life, I could say those moments you shared with me was my heaven on earth. Now you left me for a petty cause and I am in my worst nightmare once again. But I still love you and always will.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Happiness as light as air.
LOVE as DEEP as OCEAN.
Friends as solid as diamonds
And success as bright as gold.
These are my wishes for you today and everyday!!!
(from someone)
Make new friends but keep the old. One is silver and the other is gold.
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!
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Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, impossible to forget.
G. Randolf
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!
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It takes a year to make a friend, but you can lose one in an hour.
Chinese Proverb
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!
“STAY” is a charming word in a friend’s vocabulary.
Amos Bronson Alcott
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!
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Two persons cannot long be friends if they cannot forgive each other’s failings.
Jeande la Bruyere
HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY!!!!!
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A friend is a gift you give yourself.
Robert Louis Stevenson
The most difficult thing to explain in life is the simplest truth called love.
Ramanathan Srinivasan
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As we have explained, in first love the soul is taken long before the body; later the body is taken long before the soul; sometimes the soul is not taken at all.
Victor Hugo
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Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low.
Henry Ward Beecher
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Love is when you look into someone's eyes and go all the way inside; to their soul and you both know... instantly!
Angela Chase
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Find the person who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life.
Leo Buscaglia
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“A friend is a gift you give yourself.”
Robert Louis Stevenson
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I have one best friend in this world. She never left me nor forsake me. She loves me despite our petty misunderstandings and quarrels in the past. She has forgiven me of all my temperaments and moods in the past. She is so generous and thoughtful. She never ever forgets my birthdays. What a friend, a best friend and I am so blessed to have her in my life. You ask me who? Of course my one and only sister “LOVE JOY.”
HAPPY SISTER’S DAY!!!
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“Someday we will forget the hurt, the reason we cried and who caused us pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge. But letting things unfold in their own way and own time.
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After all what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of our life which shows how well we ran the race.
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So smile, laugh and forgive. Believe and love all over again.”
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Respect is earned not given. Take good care of it.
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Living within your means is a major key to enjoying your wealth without becoming materialistic and bound by debt and the need for more.
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NEVER blame failures, decisions, and your emotional responses on other people.
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Never resent being manipulated by people who try to influence you. Just do what makes you happy and be able to discern right from wrong.
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Never procrastinate and then make decisions even without input from others. When you decide, never worry about how the others will respond. Own you decision.
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When we ignore our free will, we sacrifice numerous opportunities to step out on faith, stand up for what is right, and take life by the horns.
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The person who has relinquished the power to choose just either be satisfied with the leftovers or find someone on whose coat tails he or she can ride into glory.
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Realize that we have within reach the solution to make of our self-induced problems.
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Bowing to peer pressure is little more that giving up our will power and following the will of others. Never ever blend in.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Throughout life, we are put to the test in terms of values, character, and priorities.
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The guilt, humiliation, and inner anger that follow value compromise can be unbearable. As a result of string-pulling, we either lower our standards or run away from them the rest of our lives.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
The problem with the blame game is that we eventually mar our self-esteem in the process, pretending to be helpless victims as opposed to willing conspirators.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Some major regrets in life, often traceable to the ill-effects of letting someone pull their strings.
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Why do we let people pull our strings when it is self-defeating?
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Take full responsibility for your own actions.
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Own your core values instead of renting it.
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Too much of our identity is based on social relationship, Be your own identity.
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When we base our sense of value on how others respond to us, we become vulnerable to people tides. Like a boat without a mooring, we go back and forth, up and down, depending on the nearest and strongest current of the moment.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Chameleons take on the color of their surroundings. Low-self-esteem people meld with the present environment. To fit in, they compromise their values so as to win acceptance from others.
Be your own best ally and transform your mind.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Only you can live your life. Other people may want you to live according to their wishes.
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True friends, people who love you, will not try to pull your strings.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Most people tend to confuse chronological age with maturity, There is no direct correlation between time and maturation, only the potential for it. GROW UP.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Recognize weak moments.
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The common string-pulling conditions is when we choose to respond with anger instead of healthy, loving communication.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Letting people pull our chains and push our buttons is most common when we are emotionally vulnerable. Stand up and be strong in every situation/circumstance.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Over reacting often results in doing or saying things we regret later.
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Take full responsibility of your attitudes and actions.
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In every situation we can choose to react or respond. Reacting denotes string-pulling. Responding indicates that we accept responsibility for our behaviour.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Whenever we come to a narrow or rutty area, stir the wheels by yourself, taking the hands of others off the wheel.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
When we let other people get their hands on our steering wheel, we relinquish our God – given ability to exercise free will. This often results in self – defeat.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Keep your hands on the wheel. Seek God and others for help, but know that the power to choose is always in you.
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"One's philosophy is not the best expressed in words; it is expressed in the choices one makes. In the long run, we shape our lives and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And, the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility."
Eleanor Roosevelt
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When the chips are down, you know who your friends are.
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I asked someone, how can I love with passion? The special someone said “Love and love just with love then everything with love.” Oh how sweet!
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“When I was young I ran out into the fields and sprawled out onto the grass . I looked at the stars above and asked for the crescent moon to one day find my one true love. Little did I know back then that request would be you!”
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
"PROMISE yourself….
To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel that there is something special in them
To look at the sunny side of everything, and make your optimism come true.
To think only the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.
To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.
To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words, but great deeds.
To live in faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are true to the best that is in you."
I need not explain myself to you and you and you. The first step towards failure is pleasing everybody. Truth is never straight once it goes from mouth to mouth.
Heart to heart, MGV ♥2♥♥
Be alone but don’t feel lonely.
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When everything is wrong, find simple reasons to smile.
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Wake up every morning without any regret from yesterday.
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Life is a beautiful gift from God so enjoy it.
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Love but don’t allow your heart to be abused.
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Trust but don’t be naive.
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Listen to others but don’t lose your own voice.
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Give but don’t allow yourself to be used.
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Happiness is a choice. Life is not about pleasing everybody.
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“Every time you mistreat a woman, you give up the right to be treated like a man.”
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What you can’t change you should bear with patiently.
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Thanks for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
A heart to heart QUOTES on feelings.
There are moments in our lives that we think and feel rejected, forgotten, taken for granted, exploited, or even verbally abused. Maybe true, but what we think or feel or see is what we get. Let our dominant thoughts focus on happiness and love and drop all those drama modes. Don't let those ill feelings get into your heart, mind and spirit. Welcome and create a happy world. Shift your paradigm. Heart to heart, MGV
I wonder if you express your thoughts or share your feelings or letting go of your emotions on FACEBOOK is “engaging a behavior annoying to others”? Is it annoying if we try our little best to share our positive outlook in life or portray a positive atmosphere instead of shouting or cursing or drama modes in our status or post? Just a little bit confused because I think it is being stifled or a freedom is curtailed, or whatever it is. Hmmmm??? pondering...SMILE!!! MGV
Beauty is not the dress we wear, the make ups we put on our face, the pieces of jewelry that we use nor the signature things we bring but the inner beauty or the beauty from within. It radiates and it shines even in darkness. Shine for others today. Heart to heart, MGV
No matter what we do or say, we can never please everybody. It is true we can't like everybody because of some behaviors but it is a matter of our attitude towards it. Love everyone anyway and do what you think is right! Heart to heart, MGV
Thanks for reading.
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
I wonder if you express your thoughts or share your feelings or letting go of your emotions on FACEBOOK is “engaging a behavior annoying to others”? Is it annoying if we try our little best to share our positive outlook in life or portray a positive atmosphere instead of shouting or cursing or drama modes in our status or post? Just a little bit confused because I think it is being stifled or a freedom is curtailed, or whatever it is. Hmmmm??? pondering...SMILE!!! MGV
Beauty is not the dress we wear, the make ups we put on our face, the pieces of jewelry that we use nor the signature things we bring but the inner beauty or the beauty from within. It radiates and it shines even in darkness. Shine for others today. Heart to heart, MGV
No matter what we do or say, we can never please everybody. It is true we can't like everybody because of some behaviors but it is a matter of our attitude towards it. Love everyone anyway and do what you think is right! Heart to heart, MGV
Thanks for reading.
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
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