Friday, July 18, 2014

First LOVE never dies???

                                                     

My friend Jazz posted "First love never dies but true love can bury it."

Love indeed is a very sweet and interesting topic especially if you are in loved. Even a song goes “it is the loveliest night of the year!” This could mean a honey moon stage. When I say honey moon stage this does not only pertains to sexual encounter after your marriage or for some it’s pre marital.  So they say,  loveliest nights or moments because one is in loved.

Going back to first love I think this is sometimes confused with first relationship, whatever! Every time I read this I often revisit my first or second, and just think or evaluate it.  Then I realized and asked myself, what was there in the first or second love? What happened? Why I could not feel the love they said never dies? Where was love then?

Yes I sometimes think about it but it could be just an infatuation, or a kind of feeling you think it was love! Just a childish thing,  or feeling or attraction perhaps.  Naturally it would die along with the passing of time. It dies a natural death,  then it is not first love.
                                                        

Love affair to remember could be with a relationship, the true sense of the word: an interaction. With fights or jealousies,  with hurts or pains,  with lovers escapades or call it dates or all those feelings you never felt before. But if there was none or no deep exchange of conversations or hugs and kisses then there was no relationship at all.   It could not be considered as first love or even a first relationship. You have to feel the love or experience a kind of love that is really one, true or real love before you can say my first love!

If it is really a first love which means one true love then it can never be buried by another true or unconditional love. Maybe we can say first relationship can be buried by another relationship. This is dependent on situation or circumstance beyond your control.  Then it buries the first relationship,  but never the love.

There is only love, one love and love never ends, never dies. Love is love. It is on the air, love is to be shared or you give it without hearing it back. You simply love and love and love over and over again!  Then first love never dies because it lives on and on and on.  When you fall in love again,  or in another relationship,  love is there and only in another form.  It never dies and could never be buried by another love,  because there is ONLY ONE LOVE, AN EVERLASTING LOVE.

Just sharing a kind of buzzing feeling from a buzzing heart.
                                                            
                                                     Mhargz GV       

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