A MESSAGE FOR A NEWLYWEDS
“We are born to love, it is the principle of existence and its only end.” “When two people love each other, they don’t look at each other; they look in the same direction.”
Allow me to congratulate you ___________________ and _______________________ , for having decided to be solemnized in the holy sacrament of matrimony. You made a decision for a lifetime and we are happy to be part of this special moment of your ceremony. The most challenging and exciting moments of your married life starts now. Enjoy it, every single moment and cherish it together in your hearts.
Now that you are one, it is necessary to be aware of your individuality and respect for each other. Acknowledge the humanness of each other. Trust, respect and communication are vital ingredients for a happy marriage. Never ever attempt to change one another just to please each other. Just be yourself loving and respecting each other. If you take time to talk together each day you’ll never become strangers.
For the first few years of your marriage you will encounter obstacles and trials as you face your daily routines and endeavors together. You will discover some traits and behaviors that you might dislike or might see the true color of a person in times of crisis. Remember that when you love someone you have to look beyond your differences, beyond your imperfections , beyond your weaknesses. Instead you have to support and bring out the best in each other. When you relate with each other, sometimes arguments or misunderstanding will come into the picture but just be ready to forgive and forget because it is really unavoidable
Remember that a relationship is a pooling of resources. That means that with each relationship you are not only giving, you are becoming more. Living happily ever after depends in part on what you’re after. Whenever there are misunderstandings, never sleep with it and fix it the soonest. Make certain they are thoroughly over and done. Both of you have to settle differences soonest. “Don’t hold on to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.”
Congratulations!! Increase tenderness and intimacy. They are powerful source of nourishment to relationships. May God bless you and you are now each for the other and both for the Lord.
Thank you for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
Monday, August 27, 2012
Saturday, August 25, 2012
A heart to heart LOVE POEM for a friend
I spent night and days thinking and deciding what to do. I am at a crossroads right now ... thinking if my next move will hurt someone or will drift us apart. I came up with a decision to be honest with myself, to be honest with someone I care for, and foremost, to let go of my long kept emotions from my heart.
Only from the heart can you touch the sky and I wish to pour out the feelings that has long been curtailed because of fear that it might only hurt someone. But I have to face it now or it would be unfair if this feeling will never be known by the person I loved and treasured most in my life.
You think of me as one of your friends and likewise you are my friend. But knowing you more each day made me realize that a feeling of friendship had grown into love. Because you are a wonderful and a beautiful person as well, and your inner beauty captured my heart forever.
Yes, I love you and I want you to know that. I wish you will not be angry at me, please don't, because all I am saying is I have fallen for you and I will love you and will never stop loving you.
No matter how far you are, no matter how long it takes you, through distance and time, I'll be waiting. I'll wait a million days to see you smile and say you love me too.
I LOVE YOU NOW AND FOREVER AND I WILL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU.
Thank you for reading.
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
Only from the heart can you touch the sky and I wish to pour out the feelings that has long been curtailed because of fear that it might only hurt someone. But I have to face it now or it would be unfair if this feeling will never be known by the person I loved and treasured most in my life.
You think of me as one of your friends and likewise you are my friend. But knowing you more each day made me realize that a feeling of friendship had grown into love. Because you are a wonderful and a beautiful person as well, and your inner beauty captured my heart forever.
Yes, I love you and I want you to know that. I wish you will not be angry at me, please don't, because all I am saying is I have fallen for you and I will love you and will never stop loving you.
No matter how far you are, no matter how long it takes you, through distance and time, I'll be waiting. I'll wait a million days to see you smile and say you love me too.
I LOVE YOU NOW AND FOREVER AND I WILL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU.
Thank you for reading.
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
A heart to heart QUOTES - Aloneness
“It is true that we are all alone. This knowledge is devastating to many of us. Still, it is a fact. We are brought into the world alone and we will, no matter how many people love us, have to die alone. In between, we will have to grow alone, make personal decisions alone and determine our choices for change and growth, alone. Most of us feel this mounting sense of aloneness all of our lives.”
Love and relating help to make the knowledge of aloneness more bearable.
So we must, at last, accept full responsibility for the success or failure of emerging from aloneness and our coming together in love.
We must try to better know who we are, who the other is, and what dynamics are required to keep us united.
Our lives are intricate patterns of relationships in which our motivations, our desire, our beliefs, our needs and our dreams are intricately attached.
Know yourself and define your individuality by looking into the patterns of your relationship.
Bring someone into your life in love and feel the joy and inner happiness. Love is all there is.
We become, in a sense, a part of all that we perceive.
Every people, things, environment, experiences are part of our lives and sometimes we fail to realize their special roles in our thoughts and behavior.
Continue to grow in understanding and love as you change your way of seeing the world and interacting in it.
Never ever give up because whatever struggle you are in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow.
A sincere compliment will change someone’s perspective, one way or the other.
Smile and whisper to yourself that “ I did it with colors”! You were able to outsmart all those people who tried to bring you down.
Happiness comes from within and it is a personal choice. Choose to be happy after all it is for free.
When you find love, the true essence of love, cherish it forever and a day.
Thanks for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
Love and relating help to make the knowledge of aloneness more bearable.
So we must, at last, accept full responsibility for the success or failure of emerging from aloneness and our coming together in love.
We must try to better know who we are, who the other is, and what dynamics are required to keep us united.
Our lives are intricate patterns of relationships in which our motivations, our desire, our beliefs, our needs and our dreams are intricately attached.
Know yourself and define your individuality by looking into the patterns of your relationship.
Bring someone into your life in love and feel the joy and inner happiness. Love is all there is.
We become, in a sense, a part of all that we perceive.
Every people, things, environment, experiences are part of our lives and sometimes we fail to realize their special roles in our thoughts and behavior.
Continue to grow in understanding and love as you change your way of seeing the world and interacting in it.
Never ever give up because whatever struggle you are in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow.
A sincere compliment will change someone’s perspective, one way or the other.
Smile and whisper to yourself that “ I did it with colors”! You were able to outsmart all those people who tried to bring you down.
Happiness comes from within and it is a personal choice. Choose to be happy after all it is for free.
When you find love, the true essence of love, cherish it forever and a day.
Thanks for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
Thursday, August 23, 2012
A heart to heart QUOTEs - we are beautiful
Smile you are beautiful.
Laughter is good but not at the expense of another!
Let everything be and accept it as it is.
Just say you love me, that is all I want of you.
You are special and that is why I love you. That is what my heart whispers as of the moment.
Who cares what people say or think of me. I am just ME and I do what I do and it makes me happy.
I expect nothing and I accept everything.
There is a greatness embedded in you, just unleash it to the maximum level.
“By letting it go, it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go.”
Just knowing that you are there and I am here loving you makes me feel good. I am indeed happy loving you, just loving you with all my heart, mind and soul.
“An arrow can be shot only by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it’s going to launch you into something GREAT.”
Just looking at you makes my heart sing for joy.
It is my choice to feel good and I will not allow negative influence to cloud my day and judgement for after all, today is a precious gift from above.
I will choose to love and hopefully be loved and I will ask the Lord to occupy my heart with joy and happiness. Celebrate love and friendship!
LOVE who your heart wants and not by your sight. Who cares with time and space anyway?
Never worry about what others may think or say. Love and be loved, it is your love story anyway.
This love is mine not yours. So let it be. Let me love forever and a day. Let me love you no matter what comes in between us.
Thank you for the gift of friendship, for love and care, for well – wishes and concerns for my well – being. For prayers and sweet hello and for everything nice words you said about me. Your sweet words spelled a big difference in my life. And you know why.
Instead of talking about problems, break it gently let it go and instead talk about love, joy and happiness.
Living life to its fullest simply means being detached from people and things. Of course we relate with people but don’t be too attached that when they choose to leave or go we will be downhearted. We have to respect our individuality.
We define life and we create the world around us.
Fall in love with yourself and you will discover the true secret of happiness.
Never deny or hide your feelings because the more it shows and grows.
When it is over, it is over. When it is done, it is done. Let it be. Let it flow. Let it go.
“I can’t do it” never accomplished anything. “I will try” has performed wonders.
Selected
If I have been able to see farther than others, it was because I stood on the shoulders of giants.
Sir Isaac Newton
It is amazing how much people can get done if they don’t worry about who gets the credit.
Sandra Swinney
The man who accomplishes nothing and then stops to rest will never be a leader.
- Supervision
He who begins too much accomplishes little.
– German proverb
Whatever a man can conceive and believe, he can achieve.
`~ Napoleon Hill
A man should never be ashamed to own that he had been in the wrong which is but saying in other words that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
~ Alexander Pope
An error gracefully acknowledged is a victory won.
~ Caroline L. Gascoigne
Our greatest business undoubtedly is not to see what lies dimly in a distance but to do what lies clearly at hand.
~ Thomas Carlyle
Action may not always bring happiness but there is no happiness without action.
~ Benjamin Disraeli
Well done is better than well said.
~Benjamin Franklin
Our acts make or mar us – we are the children of our deeds.
~ Victor Hugo
Never do a wrong thing to make a friend or to keep one.
~Robert E. Lee
Noble blood is an accident of fortune, noble actions characterize the great.
~~Goldoni
“We are not our past. Our past reflects experiences good and bad that gave us feelings, abilities and wisdom.”
“Experiences shaped our journey and some could be hurtful, they do not define who we are, what we can be or limit where we can go.”
“We can grow our tree of life in new directions with new branches and transform in amazing ways.”
“When we release the hold of the past over us, we free ourselves to embrace the wonder of all we can be.”
Don Shapiro, author
We should be taught not to wait for inspiration to start a thing. Action always generates inspiration . Inspiration seldom generates action.
Frank Tibolt
What we really need is one true love, not a perfect love.
The possibilities are numerous once we decide to act and not react.
Gloria Anzaldua
Act well at the moment and you have performed a good action to all eternity.
Johann Kaspar Lavater
Sail away from the safe harbor and explore the outside world.
Catch the trade winds in your sails. Follow your heart.
Explore. Dream. Discover life because we travel on different path everyday.
Kites rise highest against the wind not with it.
Winston Churchill
Should you shield the canyons from the windstorms, you would never see the beauty of their carvings.
Elizabeth Kubler
Nothing is wrong in seeking great things. Aim high and chase your dreams.
Thanks for reading...
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
Laughter is good but not at the expense of another!
Let everything be and accept it as it is.
Just say you love me, that is all I want of you.
You are special and that is why I love you. That is what my heart whispers as of the moment.
Who cares what people say or think of me. I am just ME and I do what I do and it makes me happy.
I expect nothing and I accept everything.
There is a greatness embedded in you, just unleash it to the maximum level.
“By letting it go, it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go.”
Just knowing that you are there and I am here loving you makes me feel good. I am indeed happy loving you, just loving you with all my heart, mind and soul.
“An arrow can be shot only by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it’s going to launch you into something GREAT.”
Just looking at you makes my heart sing for joy.
It is my choice to feel good and I will not allow negative influence to cloud my day and judgement for after all, today is a precious gift from above.
I will choose to love and hopefully be loved and I will ask the Lord to occupy my heart with joy and happiness. Celebrate love and friendship!
LOVE who your heart wants and not by your sight. Who cares with time and space anyway?
Never worry about what others may think or say. Love and be loved, it is your love story anyway.
This love is mine not yours. So let it be. Let me love forever and a day. Let me love you no matter what comes in between us.
Thank you for the gift of friendship, for love and care, for well – wishes and concerns for my well – being. For prayers and sweet hello and for everything nice words you said about me. Your sweet words spelled a big difference in my life. And you know why.
Instead of talking about problems, break it gently let it go and instead talk about love, joy and happiness.
Living life to its fullest simply means being detached from people and things. Of course we relate with people but don’t be too attached that when they choose to leave or go we will be downhearted. We have to respect our individuality.
We define life and we create the world around us.
Fall in love with yourself and you will discover the true secret of happiness.
Never deny or hide your feelings because the more it shows and grows.
When it is over, it is over. When it is done, it is done. Let it be. Let it flow. Let it go.
“I can’t do it” never accomplished anything. “I will try” has performed wonders.
Selected
If I have been able to see farther than others, it was because I stood on the shoulders of giants.
Sir Isaac Newton
It is amazing how much people can get done if they don’t worry about who gets the credit.
Sandra Swinney
The man who accomplishes nothing and then stops to rest will never be a leader.
- Supervision
He who begins too much accomplishes little.
– German proverb
Whatever a man can conceive and believe, he can achieve.
`~ Napoleon Hill
A man should never be ashamed to own that he had been in the wrong which is but saying in other words that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
~ Alexander Pope
An error gracefully acknowledged is a victory won.
~ Caroline L. Gascoigne
Our greatest business undoubtedly is not to see what lies dimly in a distance but to do what lies clearly at hand.
~ Thomas Carlyle
Action may not always bring happiness but there is no happiness without action.
~ Benjamin Disraeli
Well done is better than well said.
~Benjamin Franklin
Our acts make or mar us – we are the children of our deeds.
~ Victor Hugo
Never do a wrong thing to make a friend or to keep one.
~Robert E. Lee
Noble blood is an accident of fortune, noble actions characterize the great.
~~Goldoni
“We are not our past. Our past reflects experiences good and bad that gave us feelings, abilities and wisdom.”
“Experiences shaped our journey and some could be hurtful, they do not define who we are, what we can be or limit where we can go.”
“We can grow our tree of life in new directions with new branches and transform in amazing ways.”
“When we release the hold of the past over us, we free ourselves to embrace the wonder of all we can be.”
Don Shapiro, author
We should be taught not to wait for inspiration to start a thing. Action always generates inspiration . Inspiration seldom generates action.
Frank Tibolt
What we really need is one true love, not a perfect love.
The possibilities are numerous once we decide to act and not react.
Gloria Anzaldua
Act well at the moment and you have performed a good action to all eternity.
Johann Kaspar Lavater
Sail away from the safe harbor and explore the outside world.
Catch the trade winds in your sails. Follow your heart.
Explore. Dream. Discover life because we travel on different path everyday.
Kites rise highest against the wind not with it.
Winston Churchill
Should you shield the canyons from the windstorms, you would never see the beauty of their carvings.
Elizabeth Kubler
Nothing is wrong in seeking great things. Aim high and chase your dreams.
Thanks for reading...
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ
Monday, August 20, 2012
A heart to heart QUOTES - be thankful
Be thankful that we live another day or we may just fade away.
Be thankful that behind every storm is surely the rainbow of hope and sunshine.
Be thankful for our mistakes, because life would be so boring if we were all perfect.
Be thankful for stress so that we can be reminded to relax and put variety in our lives.
Have a thousand and one reasons to be thankful. The Lord is good all the time.
Yes, life goes on but as of the moment all I need is love, understanding and space.
No matter how many times you break down there is always that power embedded in you to get up and start all over again. Yes, there is so stand up and face the world anew.
Accept the things you can’t change. If you can and want to change them, do it. Learn to accept whatever resistance to change that comes your way.
Let go of the people who are holding you down. But do it gently, if possible.
Go for a run. A nice, long run. Run until you feel good. Let go of all negativity by way of sweating it out.
Write down everything you don’t like about yourself. Rip it up and burn it. Face the new world with a big smile.
Call someone you love. Just hearing their voice can make your day better. Dear someone, I do miss you.
Smile at stranger. It will make both of you smile. Smile is a universal language and it comes for free.
Sing at the top of your lungs, dancing as you go. Just do it and feel good no matter how out of tune. What matters is you sing and dance once and for all.
Send an anonymous compliment instead of complaints. All complaints expired yesterday.
When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade. Then sell it and make profit with joy and happiness.
All that is required of us is that we look into the mirror and then learn from our experiences. Bad or good ones, happiness or sorrow now belongs to the past but pick up those sweet moments and cherish it forever and a day.
Believe in yourself and stand tall in what you believe is right. Whether you are unpopular or alone does not matter. What matters is you fight for a battle worth the time and effort.
“I learned to GIVE not because I have much but because I know exactly how it feels to have NOTHING.”
"Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower, we will grieve not but find strength in what remains behind."
Thanks for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
Be thankful that behind every storm is surely the rainbow of hope and sunshine.
Be thankful for our mistakes, because life would be so boring if we were all perfect.
Be thankful for stress so that we can be reminded to relax and put variety in our lives.
Have a thousand and one reasons to be thankful. The Lord is good all the time.
Yes, life goes on but as of the moment all I need is love, understanding and space.
No matter how many times you break down there is always that power embedded in you to get up and start all over again. Yes, there is so stand up and face the world anew.
Accept the things you can’t change. If you can and want to change them, do it. Learn to accept whatever resistance to change that comes your way.
Let go of the people who are holding you down. But do it gently, if possible.
Go for a run. A nice, long run. Run until you feel good. Let go of all negativity by way of sweating it out.
Write down everything you don’t like about yourself. Rip it up and burn it. Face the new world with a big smile.
Call someone you love. Just hearing their voice can make your day better. Dear someone, I do miss you.
Smile at stranger. It will make both of you smile. Smile is a universal language and it comes for free.
Sing at the top of your lungs, dancing as you go. Just do it and feel good no matter how out of tune. What matters is you sing and dance once and for all.
Send an anonymous compliment instead of complaints. All complaints expired yesterday.
When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade. Then sell it and make profit with joy and happiness.
All that is required of us is that we look into the mirror and then learn from our experiences. Bad or good ones, happiness or sorrow now belongs to the past but pick up those sweet moments and cherish it forever and a day.
Believe in yourself and stand tall in what you believe is right. Whether you are unpopular or alone does not matter. What matters is you fight for a battle worth the time and effort.
“I learned to GIVE not because I have much but because I know exactly how it feels to have NOTHING.”
"Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower, we will grieve not but find strength in what remains behind."
Thanks for reading
Heart to heart,
MHARGZ V.
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