Sunday, November 10, 2013

Say you love me, again and again.

                                                                          


It is not easy to fall in love.   It takes courage to say I LOVE YOU or I MISS YOU or I NEED YOU.  And when I say I LOVE YOU,  please take care of my heart.  Be gentle with my heart because I am making a promise for you to take good care of it.   Not easy to be hurt,  or be in tears.   But sometimes,  tears are part of loving you.

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Doing something you have always wanted will bring you some measure of content.  Think of what you really want to achieve in life and go for it with passion. 


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You might be in a rut, a familiar track which leads nowhere.  Time to shift your paradigm or shift gear to change your course of direction.  Stay focused to be on the right track.  


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Value your time and value yourself.  People who value themselves are valued by others.  


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Decide what you really want in life and go for it.  Once decided you have to see it through with   sheer determination as your major virtue.  Reach for your goal. 

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There will be times in your life that you have to ask for what you want in order to get your own way.  It is not always easy because you usually fear a refusal.   Accept the fact and not be upset by it.  That is the way of life.  


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Express what you want to make a difference in your life. If you are not used to getting your own way, there might be feelings of guilt. Never feel guilty if you get what you asked for. Accept it as your right because more often than not, it is.


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Saying NO to others may create a problem.  Ask yourself why you get such request.  Either you are nice or others see you as “soft” or one who get them out of difficulties.  Discern if help is really necessary.  Learn to say NO once in a while.  



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There are times that you have to say NO and never worry if it will make you unpopular. Don't be pressured on doing  something you can't think clearly enough to refuse.  Just say NO in a friendly manner and offer advice to help solve their own problems.


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If you want to refuse something you do not want to do,  simply repeat your refusal like a broken record until others gives in and accepts your answer. 


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Yes, help others when in dire need.  But never allow them to exploit you or walk all over you time and again. Set your limits.   
                                                                             
 
                                                       Mhargz GV                
 


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